The most feared thing in a couple's relationship is probably "dryness". One dryness = two pain.
There is, of course, a magic weapon for this awkward situation -- lubricant.
Some time ago, just received a message from fans for help, as follows:
"My wife and I are starting to hit middle age, but we have a very good relationship and remain enthusiastic about our relationship as a couple, but maybe because of her age, my wife can get a bit 'in' and it doesn't work out several times.
Later on, on the recommendation of a friend, we tried lubricant, which opened the door of a new world instantly. Basically, we would wipe a little every time, but after a long time, we were worried that it would be harmful to the body. Just some time ago, my wife found out about vaginitis, which made us dare not use it.
Most people's sex life, may have so one or two bottles of "lubricant", but after all is used in private parts, can have an impact on the human body? Today, sex dolls under 1000 let you know the "secret" about lubricants.
First, after menopause, estrogen levels gradually decline
Most women go through menopause around the age of 50. Some people may think that having sex after menopause is "immoral", but it is actually a normal biological requirement.
But postmenopausal women have to deal with the fact that decreased estrogen production, thinner vaginal walls and less lubricated vagina can also lead to pain in the bedroom. In this case, in addition to appropriate estrogen supplementation under the guidance of a doctor, you can also choose a lubricant to improve the situation.
Ever since humans have known about friction, they have looked for ways to reduce it. Around 300 to 400 AD, it was discovered that olive oil could work wonders in the process of sex, so the first lubricants were born.
However, real lubricants were not originally used for sex, but for medical applications such as digital rectal examination, gastroscopy, colonoscopy, etc., to alleviate patients' pain.
Later, it was gradually used by people in the bedroom. Compared with before, the quality was indeed improved, which not only increased the pleasure, but also prevented the damage in the process of sleeping together and improved the sense of security. Therefore, there are a wide variety of lubricants on the market today.
Two, often use lubricant, can it be harmful to human body?
It's a concern most of us may have had. Lubricants are common in couples living together and can enhance the experience, but there's also a lurking fear of harm. First, let's take a look at the three common lubricants on the market.
1. Water-based lubricant
The most common type of lubricant, the main components are glycerin, water, small molecule moisturizer, etc., because its texture is close to water, has good skin affinity, not easy to sensitize, but also easy to clean.
But because it is close to water, it is also easy to volatilize, and the action time is short. Generally, there is no effect on it for about 15 minutes, and it needs to be added halfway.
2. Silicon-based lubricant
Silicon-based lubricants are generally silicone oil, which is the most widely used lubricant in natural latex condoms.
The silicon matrix is more oil, the action time is longer, but it will damage the same material products, so it can not be used with silicone small toys, and it is more difficult to clean, and the price is slightly expensive.
3. Oil-based lubricant
The most common oil base is petroleum jelly, its main component is mineral oil, can be said to wipe once, oil to "heaven and earth."
But its disadvantages are also obvious, too greasy, after use will have greasy feeling. In addition, it cannot be used with condoms and can easily dissolve. Because it is not easy to decompose in the vagina, easy to cause infection, so there are very few oil-based lubricants on the market now
In fact, water-based lubricant is the mainstream product on the market, the general regular manufacturers are the national food grade. In other words, even if accidentally ingested, it will not have much effect on health. Therefore, frequent use of water-based lubricants will not be harmful to human health.
It should be warned that some people see similar ingredients and use skin care instead of lubricant. It should be noted that many components of these skin care products are not suitable for entering the body, and random replacement may lead to allergies and inflammation of private parts.
Three, after the use of lubricant, the following "hot and spicy" pain is how to return a responsibility?
There are a small number of people after applying lubricant, but will experience discomfort, such as "burning pain", this may be related to the following three things:
Lubricant expiration: when using, do not pay attention to the date, expired lubricant component deterioration, will cause discomfort after use;
Three no products: some people are cheap, buy fake and shoddy products or three no products, this kind of products have not passed the quality inspection, do not know what added ingredients;
Allergies: There is nothing wrong with the lubricant itself, but the object may be allergic to an ingredient.
Therefore, before using lubricant, we should pay attention to the following 4 points:
1, colorless and odorless is the best
Don't buy flavored lubricants, remember that the simpler, the less ingredients, the safer.
2. Pay attention to the shelf life
Use period should pay attention to the shelf life, even a few days expired, there may be some ingredients metamorphism, should not be used again.
3, the formal way to buy
When buying, be sure to buy through regular channels, using fake and shoddy products may cause allergies.
4. Skin test
Before using, it's a good idea to do a skin test, such as applying a little behind the ear, to look for any signs of allergy.
Stretch - What's the oil on a condom? Could it be harmful if you accidentally eat it?
Is the oil on the condom edible, some wonder? What happens if you accidentally eat it?
At present, the oil on the condom is actually a kind of lubricating oil, most condoms use water-based lubricant, a small amount of accidental ingestion will not have any big problems.
But be aware that there may be latex allergy, female allergy may appear vaginal itching, mucosal congestion, increased leucorrhea and other symptoms, often use this kind of condom easy to get gynecological diseases.
Therefore, for latex allergy, should choose natural latex synthetic condoms, or other allergy-free condoms.
The scientific use of lubricant, can bring a lot of happiness to the bedroom at the same time, but also more conducive to the marital feelings. So when it comes to the inevitable dryness, it's important not to shy away from gadgets, but to learn to use them and enjoy life.